<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[jahcollective.com]]></title><description><![CDATA[www.jahyancey.com]]></description><link>https://www.jahyancey.com/my-blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2026 09:49:59 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.jahyancey.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[To be held]]></title><description><![CDATA[a reflection on loss, motherhood, and the moment that changed how i learned to advocate for myself.]]></description><link>https://www.jahyancey.com/post/the-shift</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a81f7d07c9db3aefd723f33</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 09:27:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/60cb80_d45c43241602409f85b15feba7220217~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_864,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>jahcollectivelegac</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Price Tag on Becoming]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s a cost to becoming who you’re becoming. And sometimes we're caught off guard without having prepared for that part. Not the glow-up. Not the change in capacity. Not the rearranged approach to thinking, and to life. I'm talking about the Cost.  The Price.  Le Prix. Sometimes the cost is people who loved an earlier version of you — but don’t know how to meet you where you are now. Sometimes it’s comfort, familiarity. Sometimes it’s the version of yourself that was conditioned for...]]></description><link>https://www.jahyancey.com/post/the-price-tag-on-becoming</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a81f7d07c9db3aefd723f36</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2025 19:13:53 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/60cb80_d7468fb171fc476bb6eff744f7f7b558~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>jahcollectivelegac</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Quiet Goodbyes]]></title><description><![CDATA[What started as a letter, ended up as a reflection on the unspoken grief of friendships that suddenly stop choosing us back. I didn’t know if I would ever write this (let alone share it), but as the year winds down, I’ve been sitting with what I’m choosing to release — and what I’m choosing to carry with me into this next version of my life. And expectedly, you came to mind. Not because I’m holding on, but because I'm finally feeling ready to let go. When our friendship ended — or drifted, or...]]></description><link>https://www.jahyancey.com/post/a-note-for-the-friends-who-found-an-exit-in-the-midst-of-our-becoming</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a81f7d07c9db3aefd723f34</guid><pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2025 12:58:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/60cb80_3e8d85f63c70439094f2e4d83b21c58c~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_805,h_454,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>jahcollectivelegac</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The in-between]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lately, I’ve been taking inventory of what feels healthy — in habits, in relationships, in thoughts — and challenging myself to focus solely on finding my rhythm in the in-between. I feel myself constantly reaching for that perfectly balanced groove — the one that makes me feel like I’m doing it all “the right way,” even if the feeling never stays for long. Maybe what I’m chasing is wholeness  — alignment, balance, flow. I’m learning that wholeness isn’t a single destination, though. You...]]></description><link>https://www.jahyancey.com/post/the-in-between</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a81f7d07c9db3aefd723f35</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2025 21:49:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/60cb80_1f4d6b82f0b84fcb93211f07b10bf608~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>jahcollectivelegac</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Listening differently.]]></title><description><![CDATA[My father always encouraged listening.  It was an emphasized value growing up — it was expected, modeled, and reinforced.  Actually, it...]]></description><link>https://www.jahyancey.com/post/listening-differently</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a81f7d07c9db3aefd723f38</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 14:47:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/60cb80_f824be9dd8094160ab28f223bb2f6011~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>jahcollectivelegac</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Birth.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Jah Collective  was born out of a feeling I couldn’t ignore anymore — a quiet nudge that kept whispering: there’s more.  More to explore,...]]></description><link>https://www.jahyancey.com/post/your-title-what-s-your-blog-about</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a81f7d07c9db3aefd723f32</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2025 19:49:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/60cb80_d7fa68c0daa14916ad133bea797f8e1c~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_668,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>jahcollectivelegac</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>